What gear do you drive in ?
Those of you who drive will agree with me, that in most uncertain situations 2 nd gear is the best to drive your car in. It gives you an opportunity to quickly slow down and if you have the luxury of a few extra unclaimed yards then you can quickly seize those too by accelerating just a little bit more. No real hassles, not much risk involved, a sense of complete control (just a sense) and smooth ride. OK! before a speed lover points out let me accept that indeed the ride is devoid of any thrill. So what? It is much safer, risk-free and with a higher probability of getting to where I am headed to. So unless you put me in a Volvo with at least six air bags, ABS, obstruction sensors and parachutes I will not speed -up on roads. But what about life? Are we also living our lives in second gear? Trying to exercise that sense of control and making it hassle-free? Are we forfeiting the right to thrilling successes just because we do not wish to run the risk of painful failures. Are we settli